160708

    女生说:我的脚扭伤了
    男生说:我不是跌打医生会帮你按摩
    女生自己去买了药膏,按摩自己的脚
    好让脚不再那么疼痛

    女生说:我病了
    男生说:我不是医生会帮你看病
    女生自己去买了些药,吃了药
    好让自己早点康复

    女生说:我的手流血了
    男生说:我不是医生或护士会帮你包扎
    女生自己去买了膏药,贴在伤口上
    好让血不再不停的流

    130708

    最近迷恋上华语歌
    听听下
    又觉得英文歌比较好听
    可是听多了英文歌
    又觉得好怀念华语歌

    所以说
    人真得好矛盾

    不知道为什么
    很期待这个月的月尾

    大概是因为没钱用了吧?-_-'''

    To my frens who are....

    最近徘徊在lowyat论坛
    看到了有一个人post这个
    觉得很有意思
    所以决定放在blog里

    To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
    Love is like a butterfly.
    The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.
    But if you just let it fly,
    it will come to you when you least expect it.
    Love can make you happy but often it hurts,
    but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.
    So take your time and choose the best.

    To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
    Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person."
    It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

    To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
    Never say "I love you" if you don't care.
    Never talk about feelings if they aren't there.
    Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
    Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.
    The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl isto let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works
    both ways...

    To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
    Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry."
    Not "where are you",
    but "I'm right here."
    Not "how could you",
    but "I understand."
    Not "I wish you were",
    but "I'm thankful you are."

    To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
    The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

    To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
    Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.
    The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

    To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
    How to be in love:
    Fall but don't stumble,
    be consistent but not too persistent,
    share and never be unfair,
    understand and try not to demand,
    and get hurt but never keep the pain.

    To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
    It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

    To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
    Love hurts when you break up with someone.
    It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.
    But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

    To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
    A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love,
    only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.
    If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now.
    Let go.....

    TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
    My wish for you is a man/women
    whose love is honest, strong, mature,never-changing,
    uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

    100708

    今天在facebook和friendster逛了逛
    看到朋友post的照片
    有种很羡慕他们的感觉

    觉得他们的生活过的好精彩
    和自己相比一下
    自己的生活真得是平平凡凡

    是注定还是活该?

    070708

    看你走的好急
    原本牵着的手也缓缓的
    放开了我的手
    我站在这里
    看着你,头也不回的向前走

    心里有份期待
    期待着你回头看看我
    你走了到好远
    都没有回头

    心里的痛是无法形容
    心开始在颤抖
    带着难过的心情
    开始孤单的旅行

    或许在开始旅行中
    你突然的回头
    你开始在寻找着我

    但是这一切都不再重要了

    因为原本完美的心在你面前的时候
    你没发觉,也没珍惜
    只能说你错过了,它不会再重来

    或许你一直走下去
    完完全全没有回头过
    我也不会埋怨
    因为是注定
    注定我的爱情路程是拥有这一段

    050708

    那天有人对我说
    做女朋友的该学会睁只眼闭只眼
    好让生活好过点

    皱了眉头的我
    实在是不明白
    为什么

    要是男生们真的能那么自制
    女生们需要那么懊恼吗?

    要是男生们能保证自己不会搞三搞四
    女生们需要问长问短吗?

    要不是女生们睁开眼睛
    女生们怎能知道自己的男友对不起自己?

    要不是女生们睁开眼睛
    女生们怎会知道自己的男友在背后做了什么?

    女生不能容忍自己的男友背叛她们
    难道男生们就能容忍自己的女友背叛他们?
    我相信是不可能吧?

    那为什么要睁只眼闭只眼?
    难道就不能坦诚吗?
    我以为感情之间最重要的是坦诚
    原来不是哦?

    爱情游戏原来是这样的
    我错了

    030708

    收到朋友寄给我的一封email
    题目是:men are hard to please 男人很难取悦

    好奇的我便开来看,然后读了下去

    The problems with GUYS:
    男人的问题是:

    If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
    如果妳对他好,他说妳爱上他了.

    If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.
    对他不好,他说妳骄傲.

    If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
    如果妳穿得很漂亮,他说你企图诱惑他.

    If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.
    如果不,他说妳是乡下来的

    If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;
    如果妳跟他理论,他说妳固执

    If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
    如果妳沉默,他说妳没大脑!

    If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;
    如果妳比他聪明,他说那是小聪明

    If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
    如果他比你聪明,他就是有智慧!

    If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
    如果妳不爱他,他想拥有妳

    If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)
    如果妳爱他,他试着离开妳.

    If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;
    如果妳不跟他做爱,他说妳不爱他

    If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.
    如果跟他做,他说你是贱货!

    If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;
    如果妳告诉他妳的问题,他说妳麻烦

    If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.
    如果不,他说妳不信任他

    If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
    如果妳骂他,妳好象他奶妈

    If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
    如果他骂妳,是表示他"关心"妳

    If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;
    如果妳没有守承诺,妳就是不可信的人

    If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
    如果他不守承诺,他是迫不得已的

    If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
    如果妳吸烟,妳是坏女孩

    If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.
    如果他吸烟,他是绅士

    If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;
    如果妳考试成绩好,他说是运气

    If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
    如果他考得好,他说是实力!

    If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
    如果妳伤害了他,表示妳很残忍

    If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!
    如果他伤害了妳,表示妳太敏感而且太难取悦!

    SO HARD TO PLEASE!!!!!

    当中有几个point我个人是觉得满真的
    满好奇写着东西的人
    当时是否被男生气坏了
    所以把它写下来

    I'm Yours by Jason Mraz


    Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
    I tried to be chill but you’re so hot that I melted
    I fell right through the cracks
    And now I’m trying to get back
    Before the cool done run out
    I’ll be giving it my bestest
    Nothing’s going to stop me but divine intervention
    I reckon it’s again my turn to win some or learn some

    I won’t hesitate no more, no more
    It cannot wait, I’m yours

    Well open up your mind and see like me
    Open up your plans and damn you’re free
    Look into your heart and you’ll find love, love, love, love
    Listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
    We’re just one big family
    And It’s our God-forsaken right to be loved, love,
    Loved, love, loved

    So I won’t hesitate no more, no more
    It cannot wait I’m sure
    There’s no need to complicate
    Our time is short
    This is our fate, I’m yours

    Scooch closer dear
    And I will nibble your ear

    I’ve been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
    And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
    My breath fogged up the glass
    And so I drew a new face and laughed
    I guess what I be saying is there ain’t no better reason
    To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
    It’s what we aim to do
    Our name is our virtue

    But I won’t hesitate no more, no more
    It cannot wait I’m yours
    Well open up your mind and see like me
    Open up your plans and damn you’re free
    And Look into your heart
    And you’ll find
    The sky is yours
    So please, don’t please
    don’t please, no please
    There’s no need to complicate
    ‘Cause our time is short
    This is, this is, this is our fate, I’m yours

    *ps:轻快的音乐,总让人不经意的唱了起来

    280608

    没有信任的一份感情
    就像拥有一个计时炸弹在这段感情里

    分分钟爆炸了
    感情就这样结束了

    感情就这样,
    在双方不满和不高兴的结束

    没有信任得一份感情
    就像玩风筝一样

    一不留神,风筝就飞走了
    感情就这样结束了

    感情就这样
    在一方气馁下,放弃的结束了

    240608

    习惯围绕在你身边
    然而
    你皱了眉头
    让我焕然大悟

    不该再把你放在我的中心
    开始要有自我
    眼泪不再轻易的掉
    不让你主宰我的心情
    以及不要再围绕在你身边

    来让你开心也让自己脱离美好的梦

    我的cupid0>.<

    DSC01056se

    Cupid0在三月21号加入了我的娃娃军队
    还记得那天,送姐姐去了kl central
    我就开始实行我的计划
    冲去mid valley,
    买cupid0

    这只cupid0已经被我物色了很久
    终于亲手买了下来
    (也算是因为没有人要买给我啦>.<)

    DSC01059se

    cupid0是来自dooodolls家庭
    每个星座都有属于自己独特的娃娃
    而我,双鱼座的dooodolls就是cupid0

    DSC01057se

    在那小小的册子里写着每个星座的解说:
    A hopeless romantic who views the world with rose-tinted glasses, Cupido's mission in life is to spread the word of love to the world. He can even make two person fall in love with each other instantly, all with a single beat of his read heart. Consider yourself warned!

    白白的cupid0,
    有一天应该会变成黑黑的cupid0吧?

    210608

    星期六的夜晚
    呆在家

    看着家对面的游乐场
    心痒痒的

    回想起小时候
    常常有这些游乐场
    可是自己都没有机会去

    DSC01406se

    看着那大大,圆圆的摩天轮
    好想去搭看看

    130608

    今天在office听online radio的时候
    它播放着pussycat dolls得stickwitu
    以前超爱这首歌的。。。
    直到现在还是觉得它很好听



    今天很懒哦~
    很想睡觉~
    不知道为什么心情很低落酱

    080608

    muscle痛痛的一天
    前几天join gym过后
    昨天去了free的personal trainer class

    被那personal trainer说得我好像大象一样-_-'''
    虽然知道自己没有很瘦
    可是被她说时,难免有点羞

    自从做工过后,
    体重就一直上升
    一来,自己心情不好就会一直吃东西

    看着那personal trainer自信满满
    而我只有默默的看着肥肥的自己
    相信如果我不运动的话
    应该就会变一粒球吧
    心里想着,就去gym运动一下吧

    谁知道
    class完了过后
    那个trainer就开始说些要我签personal trainer的class
    真得是-_-'''

    她说了好久哦
    不过她说的其实也没错啦(安慰自己说)
    结果就。。。
    信用卡拿出来

    钱又不见了!!!!!!!

    060608

    那天和朋友聊天说
    没有爱情的双鱼座
    就会像没有水无法生存的鱼
    但
    我朋友回答我说
    就算鱼拥有水,
    可是却是不适合鱼的水
    只会让鱼觉得辛苦

    Always be my baby by David Cook



    We were as one babe
    For a moment in time
    And it seemed everlasting
    That you would always be mine

    Now you want to be free
    So I'm letting you fly
    Cause I know in my heart babe
    Our love will never die
    No!

    You'll always be a part of me
    I'm a part of you indefinitely
    Girl don't you know you can't escape me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby
    And we'll linger on
    Time can't erase a feeling this strong
    No way you're never gonna shake me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby

    I ain't gonna cry no
    And I won't beg you to stay
    If you're determined to leave girl
    I will not stand in your way
    But inevitably you'll be back again
    Cause ya know in your heart babe
    Our love will never end no

    You'll always be a part of me
    I'm part of you indefinitely
    Girl don't you know you can't escape me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby
    And we'll linger on
    Time can't erase a feeling this strong
    No way you're never gonna shake me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby

    I know that you'll be back girl
    When your days and your nights get a little bit colder oooohhh
    I know that, you'll be right back, babe
    Ooooh! baby believe me it's only a matter of time

    You'll always be apart of me
    I'm part of you indefinitely
    Girl don't you know you can't escape me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby
    And we'll linger on
    Time can't erase a feeling this strong
    No way you're never gonna shake me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my my baby....

    You'll always be apart of me (you will always be)
    I'm part of you indefinitely
    Girl don't you know you can't escape me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby
    And we'll linger on (we will linger on....)
    Time can't erase a feeling this strong
    No way you're never gonna shake me
    Ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby

    Always be my baby

    240508

    我的部落格又被我遗弃了。。。
    真可怜。。。好久都没有update了

    上星期搭了飞机
    回了家乡
    回到家的第一天
    心里就已经打算几时搬回去
    算了一下
    六月尾应该要给辞职信
    六个月的notice
    一月回家就不用再回去kl了

    觉得自己这样就应该能摆脱苦海

    难听的说
    只是想逃避一切在西马发生的一切一切

    朋友说酱做值得吗?
    事业就不重要?

    说实在的
    我给自己找了好多理由
    好让这些理由说服自己
    离开这里一切就会很好

    现在的我坐在starbucks
    而他就坐在我的对面罢了
    看着他读着书
    丝毫没有疑问得在想说我在做什么

    是他对我的不在乎
    还是
    他觉得其实我做什么都没关系
    只要
    4年的感情可以一直保持着就可以了

    前天对他说了我打算回去家乡
    昨天我很想把自己灌醉
    不想很清醒
    因为清醒就会像现在
    脑袋在想着很多很多关于我和他的事情
    想着很多很多家人的事情
    想着很多很多工作的事情

    最近发现我有些小毛病
    在厕所的时候,好像听到电话响
    去查看的时候,根本就没有人打给我
    发生的次数,越来越多
    开始怀疑 自己是不是患了幻想症

    Bleeding love by Leona Lewis



    Closed off from love
    I didn't need the pain
    Once or twice was enough
    And it was all in vain
    Time starts to pass
    Before you know it you're frozen

    But something happened
    For the very first time with you
    My heart melts into the ground
    Found something true
    And everyone's looking round
    Thinking I'm going crazy

    But I don't care what they say
    I'm in love with you
    They try to pull me away
    But they don't know the truth
    My heart's crippled by the vein
    That I keep on closing
    You cut me open and I

    Keep bleeding
    Keep, keep bleeding love
    I keep bleeding
    I keep, keep bleeding love
    Keep bleeding
    Keep, keep bleeding love
    You cut me open

    Trying hard not to hear
    But they talk so loud
    Their piercing sounds fill my ears
    Try to fill me with doubt
    Yet I know that the goal
    Is to keep me from falling

    But nothing's greater
    Than the rush that comes with your embrace
    And in this world of loneliness
    I see your face
    Yet everyone around me
    Thinks that I'm going crazy, maybe, maybe

    And it's draining all of me
    Oh they find it hard to believe
    I'll be wearing these scars
    For everyone to see

    I don't care what they say
    I'm in love with you
    They try to pull me away
    But they don't know the truth
    My heart's crippled by the vein
    That I keep on closing
    You cut me open and I

    Keep bleeding
    Keep, keep bleeding love
    I keep bleeding
    I keep, keep bleeding love
    Keep bleeding
    Keep, keep bleeding love
    You cut me open

    發簡訊的習慣看你的致命弱點

    1.你有沒有嘗試過自己編輯一些搞笑或煽情的短信?
         有過——2
         沒有——3

    2.當你收到朋友發來的搞笑短信時,通常會?
         一笑置之——4
         感到很無聊——5
         如果確實很有意思,會轉發給其他朋友——3

    3.你對發短信表白的方式怎麽看?
         比起當面表白可能帶來的尷尬,這樣子更加含蓄、浪漫一些——6
         這是缺乏勇氣的表現——4

    4.發短信時經常會用到語氣詞,你通常會使用哪個字來表示肯定的意味呢?
         嗯或啊——6
         哦或噢——5

    5.在臨睡前發發短信,你比較習慣哪種方式?
        發完短信再上床睡覺——7
        躺在床上發短信——6

    6.晚上和朋友發短信聊天,總會記得道一聲晚安或類似的結束語嗎?
        是的——8
        不是,常常發著發著短信就睡著——7

    7.你常常會忘記刪除,使得信箱裏充滿了短信嗎?
        是的——8
        不是,我會記得定期刪除一些沒有用的短信——9

    8.你發短信時通常?
        一隻手同時抓著手機和按鍵——9
         一隻手扶著手機,另一隻手按鍵——11
        兩手同時抓著手機和按鍵——10

    9.你感到很無聊時,比較偏好於用哪種方式向朋友或戀人傾訴?
    打電話——10
        發短信——11

    10.你是不是常常發短信發到一半就感到很不耐煩,轉而打電話呢?
         是的——12
         這種情況很少出現——13

    11.如果有不認識的人發短信向你表白,你會?
         打電話回去詢問對方是誰——12
         發短信詢問——14
         什麽也不問,先和對方聊聊再說——13

    12.收到明顯是發錯了而且絕無惡意的短信時,你會?
         置之不理——A 型
         會好心回復提醒一下——14

    13.你的短信鈴聲是?
        手機自帶的——12
        自己設置的或喜歡的鈴聲——B 型

    14.你沒事的時候喜歡翻看自己以前發過或收到的的短信嗎?
        是的——C 型
        不是——D 型
















    解析:

    A.壞脾氣
    你的脾氣真的是很沖,而且從來不知道加以掩飾。你心情好的時候,看人就會格外順眼,而且對人是出奇的好。要是你心情不爽,就會把一張臉耷拉到老長,而且在你的四周會散發出一股陰冷之氣。這還好呢,要是趕上你心情極差時觸怒了你,你可一定會不分場合的發作一番。這樣很容易得罪人的!雖然你只是性子直了點,並沒有壞心,但是碰到心胸狹窄的人,很可能會懷恨在心,背後捅你一刀的。要明白,這世界不是圍繞著你一個人轉的,也要懂得站在別人的角度想一想。再說,“己所不欲,勿施於人”,你真的做到嗎?


    B.失去的情感
    與其說你對待感情太過執著,倒不如說你是有點執迷不悟。你從來不肯主動地放棄,雖然理智上你明白感情已不再,但是在情感上,就是不肯承認這個現實,非要鑽牛角尖不可。你也許會很長一段時間都獨自沉浸在失戀的痛苦中,也許會把痛苦轉爲瘋狂的報復行爲。你一旦愛上一個人,他(她)就會成爲你的全部,你會甘心情願爲對方付出一切,當然,也會不惜傷害自己和他人。其實,愛情並不是人生的全部,當愛已不在,能夠瀟灑的放手,放過別人的同時,最重要的是也放自己一條生路,畢竟,我們應該爲自己而活,不是嗎?

     
    C.優柔寡斷
    你做事情欠缺果斷,總是會瞻前顧後,即使是一件並不太大的事,你也要在事前仔細的思量,設想到各種可能性,再聯繫經驗、理論…好好地斟酌一番,到了這一步,你竟然還沒有拿定主意。雖說要三思而後行,但是像你這樣五思、六思都過了,可就不是謹慎,而是優柔寡斷了。這樣下去,再好的機會也要與你擦肩而過了。其實,你對自己還是蠻有信心的,但是,究其根源,你並不清楚的知道自己要的是什麽,也不知道該如何把握你的未來。趁著還年輕,趕緊好好的爲將來打算一下吧,否則,可是很容易被人牽著鼻子走。
      

    D.半途而廢
    現在,不妨思量一下,你的人生到現在爲止,有幾件事真正做到了善始善終,是不是屈指可數呢?你的腦袋夠聰明,也有足夠的熱情,但可惜,只是三分鐘熱度。你的性格很善變,常常是事情進行不到一半,就覺得索然無味,而且又很任性,不喜歡了,想都不想就放棄。對人也是如此,剛開始還很要好的朋友,過不了多久,就會厭倦對方,到最後只能形同陌路。不信的話,看看身邊的朋友,有幾個是相交多年的呢?喜新厭舊是本性的東西,很難改變,但是,自己做下的事,就要勇於承擔。堅持到底也是一種責任心的體現,一個沒有責任心的人,最終恐怕會一事無成的噢。


    *note:我是

    B.失去的情感
    與其說你對待感情太過執著,倒不如說你是有點執迷不悟。你從來不肯主動地放棄,雖然理智上你明白感情已不再,但是在情感上,就是不肯承認這個現實,非要鑽牛角尖不可。你也許會很長一段時間都獨自沉浸在失戀的痛苦中,也許會把痛苦轉爲瘋狂的報復行爲。你一旦愛上一個人,他(她)就會成爲你的全部,你會甘心情願爲對方付出一切,當然,也會不惜傷害自己和他人。其實,愛情並不是人生的全部,當愛已不在,能夠瀟灑的放手,放過別人的同時,最重要的是也放自己一條生路,畢竟,我們應該爲自己而活,不是嗎?

    感觉很准确哦!

    050508

    wow~自己的部落格已经布满了蜘蛛网

    是时候来打扫了
    就算心情再不好
    脏了还是要打扫一下

    最近的心情都是阴天的
    不知道为什么
    没有办法解释为什么都是酱

    逃跑是唯一的出路吗?
    我希望它是

    心情真的是复杂到无法形容